From Addiction to Zero Limits

➡ Lisa Schermerhorn introduces Lucinda Gordon Lennox, a trauma expert, transformational coach, and author from the UK, on her show. Lucinda shares her personal journey of overcoming addiction and trauma, which led her to become a trauma coach. She explains how she discovered and used Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), a therapy for trauma resolution, to heal herself. Inspired by her own transformation, Lucinda decided to help others by becoming a certified psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner.
➡ The text discusses a personal journey of healing and self-discovery through various methods like hypnosis, neuro-linguistic programming, and tapping. The author experienced a transformative spiritual awakening, known as a Kundalini awakening, which led to a heightened sense of awareness and understanding. This awakening allowed the author to see and understand trauma in others, aiding in their work as a transformational coach. The author emphasizes the importance of finding the right healing tool for each individual, as it can lead to profound personal growth and change.
➡ The speaker shares their fascination with quantum physics and how it has influenced their work in energetics and manifestation. They discuss how they’ve seen immediate results in their clients after sessions, with blocks being removed and goals being achieved. They also mention the use of live blood analysis to provide physical proof of changes after quantum healing sessions. The speaker emphasizes the power of the human mind and the importance of faith, but also the need for tangible proof to support belief in the process.
➡ The text discusses the power of positive thinking and how focusing on negative events can attract more negativity. It emphasizes the importance of addressing and healing personal traumas to manifest positive outcomes. The author also shares their experience of being part of the movie “Zero Limits” and how it was a result of consciously creating their life and opening up to new opportunities. The text encourages readers to face their fears and take action towards their goals.
➡ Ho’oponopono is an ancient Hawaiian prayer about forgiveness and letting go. It helped the speaker overcome personal trauma and victimhood, leading to the creation of a book and an unexpected movie opportunity. The speaker also shares a personal story about how keeping an open mind and trusting the universe allowed her to attend a movie premiere while ensuring her children were cared for. The speaker emphasizes the importance of releasing past issues and aligning with one’s higher self for miracles to occur.
➡ The speaker shares a personal experience about unexpected house repairs and how an investment surprisingly covered the costs. They believe these are not coincidences, but synchronicities, or “God Winks,” suggesting that our inner feelings manifest our reality. They advise that even on bad days, it’s important to trust and not worry, as these feelings are temporary. The speaker also mentions their work on Zoom and an upcoming movie, “Zero Limits,” which emphasizes forgiveness, love, and expecting miracles.

Hi, Lisa Schermerhorn here, and you’re on the Grassroots Warrior Network. And this is my show, Where Truth Lies. And I am thrilled and excited to introduce you to a friend of mine. I consider her a soul mate because we met and I instantly connected with this beautiful woman she participated in. She was one of the cast members of the movie Zero Limits. That’s how we met. But she’s so incredible. I really wanted my audience to meet her in more depth. Her name is Lucinda Gordon Lennox, and you’ll realize she’s not from the United States, she’s from the uk.

She’s a trauma expert. Expert. She’s a transformational coach, and she’s an author. And I love the title of her book, Nobody is Broken. We are all. We all have some trauma, and trauma can be healed. Welcome, Lucinda. Thank you so much for being here. Well, thank you, Lisa. It’s really lovely to be here, and I always love an opportunity to chat with you, so I feel very, very blessed. Well, thank you. Thank you. When you talk about being a trauma coach, you don’t really get to become an expert from a book that is. You have to have lived it in.

This is my opinion. Right. So what led you to being a trauma coach? What. What was it in your life that. That made you become the expert in trauma? For sure. So I’ll make it as succinct as possible because it’s probably my life story. In essence, I. I started a healing journey around the age of 31, because prior to that, although unbeknownst to me at the time, of course, I was completely steeped in addiction. So it started when I was really young. I mean, I remember age 3, stealing chocolate from my mother’s pantry and eating it in bed.

Oh, yeah. I mean, like, big blocks of, like, Bournville cooking chocolate. I couldn’t eat it for, like, you know, 20 years after that. It was really crazy. And. And it progressed. And it was food and then it was drugs and it was. It was all sorts things. And I was really. I was a real. I was really stuck in addiction. So all my 20s were just. I don’t know how I achieved anything else. Frankly, during that time, it kind of felt like my water. That. And that’s how I always viewed it. I used to look around and I.

And I couldn’t understand why other people weren’t using drugs just to get up in the morning and survive the day. I. I couldn’t understand how other people were managing to live without using what I was using. That’s how Incredibly important it was to me. But of course, because it’s a very. Not very healthy choice and not very good for the body and the brain. It got to a stage in my very late twenties where a piece of my spine had eroded, and so a piece of the spine came off and lodged against the sciatic nerve and I completely lost all the sensation in my right leg.

And I think that coupled with it was. I nearly lost my leg. So if that was from a substance you were using, or is it something else? Well, it’s hard to know. I mean, there weren’t. There hadn’t been a day for many, many, many years when I hadn’t put a lot of substances in my body. So it is quite. And there was a lot going into my poor body. So it’s hard to know. Who knows? But, you know, a very telling part is I did nothing about it at the time. It took me four or five days to actually think.

I really. You know, I saw the first doctor and he said, you need to go to Annie’s, like, your emergency room. You need to go to the emergency room now, otherwise you’ll lose your leg. I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever. Anyway, long story short, that really. I think that whole time, along with a couple of other things that had occurred and a little niggling voice inside me that was. It was tiny, it was so minuscule, but it was saying, there’s more than this. For some reason, for the first time ever, with this sort of whole conjunction of things happening, I was able to listen to that tiny voice.

And that started my journey into living without substances, which really started the healing journey. But then it was. It was funny because, you know, I used to look around at other people still. I wasn’t using anymore, no alcohol, drugs or whatever, but I used to look around and I just think people used to look so much more alive than I was. And I still felt very dead inside. And about four or five years into this new journey, still completely sober, I. I’d had a child as well, but I still felt there was something not quite making sense inside me.

Everything felt like a struggle and an effort and. And I did. I didn’t feel alive. I didn’t have any feeling. Yes. And I was watching a movie whilst breastfeeding my daughter, and it was a movie. You might have seen it. It’s got Naomi Watts in it. And it’s about the tsunami in Thailand. Exactly. And. And there was a scene in there where she is, that they’ve been hit by the tsunami and she’s holding on to something, and she sees her children being swept away from her. And that did something to my body. And it was, excuse the.

The pun, no pun, int. But it was like a tsunami of emotion actually came up in my system. And I was just like, whoa, what is happening? And so I just like, whoa. Slightly freaked out, turned the movie off, and the feeling went down again. And then a couple of weeks later, I thought, I’m just going to put that movie on and see if the same thing happens. And so I put it on again, and exactly the same thing happened. Wow. I was like, whoa, this is weird. So I was seeing a therapist at the time.

So I went to the therapist and said, this is what’s happened. What’s going on? And he actually referred me for some emdr. And I went in and I did, I think, two or three weeks of very intensive emdr. So for people who don’t know what EMDR is. Go ahead. Yeah. It’s a really, really beautiful, very, very deep trauma resolution therapy that works with somatic release and rewiring neural networks both at the same time. It’s a very, very organic process, and it is spellbindingly good. And because what had happened to me, although I didn’t realize it at the time, when I saw that movie, all of the abandonment trauma that had been dormant in my system and been pushed down in my system literally flooded me.

Wow. So it was really very easy to do MDR with me at the time because it was also. It was all there. They didn’t have to dig for it. Yeah, no digging whatsoever. And. And so I was there for two or three weeks, and I walked out of that room, and I said to the guy who did it with me, I said, this is what I want to do. This. I need to be helping other people with this because I felt so different. It felt, you know, that deadness that I’d been feeling. It felt like someone had literally plugged me into the mains.

Wow. Yeah. So not in, like, some overt way, but it’s like, oh, finally, maybe I’m actually part of life now. Right. So that was stage one, if you like. Now, obviously, at the time, it felt like all my Christmases had come at once. Little did I know that that was literally just stage one of the healing journey that was before me. But that really piqued my passion, if you like. And that got me really curious. And then, of course, I did my psychotherapy training and accreditation, and then I went off and did my EMDR training. And because I really wanted to practice it with clients.

And. And then I found Laura Parnell, who’s in California, who takes EMDR to another level and puts a much more. She calls it, attachment focused, which. It’s way deeper than that. Even what she did, it’s absolutely incredible because it. We really, really uses the subconscious, not unlike hypnotherapy, to take you back from that trigger point right back to the root. And so. And then healing the root. And then, of course, the symptom is gone. And so I did that and I just loved it so much. I absolutely loved it. And I remember my supervisor saying to me, you know, a year or so in, he’s like, how come you get this stuff so much, Lucinda? I just thought, oh, my God, you have no idea.

I was literally riddled, riddled, riddled, riddled, riddled with trauma. So it was like, you know, suddenly I was just speaking the language that I knew so well, but helping people to really come through. And you know what? That’s the. You know, one of the things that I always say is most of the healers and people have gone through trauma or some. Something. And it’s through our own journeys of healing that we realize that we. You develop a passion to help others. Because if you know this, you also know this. That pendulum that swings both ways. I have a very similar story.

And that’s how I found hypnosis, was that it changed my life. Getting to the subconscious because our conscious minds do not have access to those memories there. It’s a protection mechanism that’s created. So there’s millions of tools out there. It’s not just one, but when you find the one that works for you, it can be so transformative. I completely agree. And you’re absolutely right. There are so many beautiful tools for the unconscious, for the subconscious. Yeah. Out there. I mean, there are some that. That are very similar to emdr. You got the psych care, you’ve got.

And then of course, you’ve got all the hypnosis and nlp, neuro, linguistic programming, tapping. It just goes on. So, yeah, there’s so, so much out there. But I’m curious in your. How did your life change as you began to heal? So I think for me, I began to see more clearly. So there was a veil over my eyes. There was a veil in front of my heart. And it’s almost as though everything became a little bit more crispy and I. I mean, I hadn’t. Such a beautiful thing happened for me too, because a couple of years, maybe only one year later than that, I had a spontaneous kundalini awakening where I didn’t.

I’d never heard of a kundalini awakening and I’d never done yoga in my life. Well, I tried to do yoga, but I actually found it really boring. So I. I didn’t know about kundalini. I didn’t even know about the chakras when it happened. It was really spontaneous. And my root chakra started spinning like a washing machine. And then a week later, my sacral chakra started spinning like a washing machine. And over a six month period, it moved all the way through my body, up and out the top. So this actually took six months to go through this? It took.

Yes, it started in November and it sort of calmed down the following March. April. Yeah. So for someone who doesn’t know what this is, because I had studied it, I have not experienced, but I’ve heard people who’ve gone through it, who’ve had it suddenly actually end up in psych ward too. Because when it happens too fast, it’s like putting a roof on a house without having the foundation. Well, do you know what, Lisa? It’s funny you say that because before my root chakra started spinning, before the energy part start of the awakening started, for the three or four weeks before that, the way my brain was working and I can’t remember it specifically anymore, which is really sad, but.

Because it was ten years ago now. But there were moments, whatever was going on in my mind, my brain, I literally thought, my God, am I going mad? I could sort of see things that I’d never been able to see before. And I could hear things, but not, not in a sort of audio way, but in a much more sort of knowing way. And I. There was, there were times in that four week period before the chakra started spinning where I literally thought, I need to be committed. I need the men in white coats to come and get me.

So, you know, I have reflected on that many times since then and it has made me wonder how many people are put in psych wards and actually they’re just having a spiritual awakening. Right. I’m really, really convinced of that. Yeah. So for people who don’t know what chakras are, they’re these spinning almost look like vort. And we have them throughout our entire body, but also in our energy field, they go way up and way down. But we have seven major that we tend to work with. And so the root chakra, which is at the base of your spine, is what grounds you.

It’s also how you Feel safe and secure. So if you grow up not feeling safe and secure, if you grow up without a foundation, either there’s money issues or abuse issues. People, they use the term feeling ungrounded. And oftentimes people with those kinds of situations will often have difficulty keeping their houses, keeping jobs, anything that’s safety and security related. So how did that impact you from the standpoint of now you’ve got this thing spinning, you don’t even know what it is, but your body’s vibrating. I mean, how. What did you do with that? Well, it was pretty insane.

I mean, I put into Google Spiritual awakening, falling in love. Because I felt like I was in love with everything. I was in love with posts, I was in love with like bricks. It was, it was bizarre. And, and so good old Google came up with Kundalini. And so I, I found a Kundalini Yoga class and it took me, it took me a month or so because I remember it was. Was it Christmas Eve or New Year’s Eve? Maybe it was New Year’s Eve that same year. And I went to my first Kundalini Yoga class. And it just felt like I’d come home because suddenly I was.

That’s the other thing that the awakening did for me. Suddenly I was just going into these yoga poses that I’d never been able to do before. But something had really opened in my body in such a profound way and I was wanting to stay in these poses for ages and just not really come out. It was totally strange. So in the Kundalini Yoga class, I really felt like I’d come home and I didn’t want that first class I went to to end. I just didn’t want it to ever end. But so what? So I started doing Kundalini Yoga.

And I know that that really helped with the energies because that one of the subsequent classes I was in a class and suddenly my heart chakra literally opened and I witnessed my heart. I felt it and saw it coming out of my chest and just bursting into the. Yeah, wow. Wild. And then a month or so later, again in Kundalini Yoga, I had my eyes closed and we were doing. I don’t know what career we’re doing, what we were doing, but it was. Suddenly the top of my head came off. It literally came off and I could see the entire universe in front of me.

See my eyes were closed. So, you know, so I think the Kundalini Yoga really, really helped to allow the awakening process because my third eye opened during that process. And what I found and this really helped as well that in my work, when clients were coming, I could just scan them. I was doing it without even realizing. And I could see all the trauma. So I knew exactly where to go in the sessions. And so of course the client work exploded. So what does that look like when you say you could see the trauma? So again, it’s that different.

It’s different to that site. It’s like that different. It’s half sight, half knowing. Certainty, clunk. If that makes sense. It’s very difficult to describe expression. Certainty, clunk. And then. Yeah. And you just know. And because that knowing is. Is so. Because it just is. Yes. It’s. It’s not even that it’s certain or uncertain, it just is. And because it just is, of course, the client is there with the resonance. And so the work just flows and it’s beautiful. So. So there’s clairsentient, clairaudient, all these different Claires. And one of them is that knowing. And I have that as well.

And I notice as soon as I hear someone start to talk, and it started as soon as they start to tell their story, it’s almost like a download that comes in. I’m like, okay, I get it. I know exactly where to go. I know exactly what to do. It’s just there. But. But I didn’t know if you physically saw anything in people or it was more of a knowing. I could physically see something, but I don’t quite know how to describe it. But then it was more that knowing clunk to begin with, but that I could see this layering process in their body.

But then when we actually started doing the work and they land on a target way back, whether it’s childhood, in their parents lives, whatever, I could see the scene that they had landed in. Oh. So I could see that very, very vividly. So I could see completely what was going on. So you could verify with them and you could see and know. That’s so fascinating. I love that. It was lovely. Because if they weren’t quite sure, I could see what was going on. So that was really, you know, really helpful for them too. Yeah. That’s fantastic.

So now you’re an expert. So. So you’re working with people’s trauma and then what? And then you also. You call yourself a transformational coach. So what does that look like when you work with someone? So what started happening after that? Probably about. Actually much later, I think I did just the trauma work for maybe six or seven years. And then I discovered. I got really curious about quantum physics because I love learning and. And I just love. Everything was beginning to feel a little bit. Oh, a little bit sticky and like, I love this work, but something needs to move that there’s something else happening.

And I started down the quantum physics realm type. Do you know, I was going to call it a rabbit hole, but that is just too dismissive of the quantum realm. It’s not. It is completely the reverse of a rabbit hole. It’s like a sort of up one, isn’t it? But I really started learning all about. And I got absolutely fascinated and that’s when I really started to. I realized I’ve been working with energetics without realizing since my Kundalini awakening. Really, actually probably since way back. I did this wonderful reconnective healing with Eric Pearl many, many, many years ago.

I mean, probably 20 years ago now. But. But I think bringing the energetics piece in really accelerated the work. So learning about the quantum realm, how the energetics of the quantum field really works. And I think, you know, now it’s called manifestation. A lot is the term that a lot of people give to that. And so what I. So the type of people that were starting to come into the work were people who had a spit. They were trying to call something into their life and it was almost there, but then it kept disappearing or they couldn’t quite get it over the finish line.

And so they were coming and. And then we were. They were literally. They would have a session because the block would be so evident and they’d email me after the session. They were like, boof, bam, it’s done. So that’s when the work moved a little. It just shifted a little bit more into the coaching space because it was like, wow, this is fast. And this is getting people results so fast. This is. I love that you’re talking about the quantum field because it’s something that I’ve been fascinating with, fascinated with. And I started doing work with people working in the quantum world as well.

And then I was like, how do I prove? You know, because you get, you’ll get, you know, qualitative. You get. People will say, okay, you know, I had this feeling afterwards, but how do you prove all of this? And I was frustrated. So I actually had people’s blood checked before and after using dark field microscopy, also known as live blood analysis. So people could see that there were huge shifts and changes. And was interesting is in the state I live in, in the US Dark field microscopy was not legal, so people couldn’t legally look at their own blood.

So what happened was I had a friend in Florida and she knew someone who did this live blood analysis. So she wasn’t feeling well. We did the quantum healing, and this works in a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. But your physical body is going to change no matter what because they’re all interrelated and connected. So we were checking the blood and before, it looked stacked and it looked like coins where they’re supposed to be perfect, you know, these circles, your red blood cells moving around. So she wasn’t getting the nutrients and the oxygen throughout her body.

So to be able to see that. And then the afterwards was immediate results where the blood looked so different and going through that process. Whereas now. Okay, now there’s some science back to it. And then we found it works with groups. So people like, well, how does quantum work? Well, quantum works in so many different ways that, you know, you can work in quantum through music, through art. There’s all different ways that people manifest. So I would love to hear from you from the standpoint of how do you work with someone? What’s an example? Something where someone will suddenly have this block and then manifest something like, suddenly this block is gone.

What does that look like when you work with them? I’ll tell you exactly. But before we go there, I just want to say, I just love the idea of testing the blood because I just want to talk to that because it feels so important. And it’s a really important part of my journey too, actually, because I’ve always been my mind, the human mind. I think, you know, we all know what a powerhouse the human mind is. Right. And it. My relationship with the human mind, for myself, has been one of my biggest challenges. I think of my life, and I don’t think I’m alone with that.

Right. So the idea of having the proof, you know, yes, we want to have faith, but we are also humans with a survival mind that is constantly going to look for the negatives. Yeah. The more proof we can actually give, the better. Because. Yes, yes, of course. Faith. If we can have the faith, that’s phenomenal, we’re there, we’re over the finish line. But if that mind is so busy thoughting and we’re still believing what it’s saying, even if unconsciously, then to have as much proof of this as possible. Yes. Really helps the growth. Because the unconscious part of us, the wounded child, is what runs us.

They’re the parts of us who. There’s the parts of us that choose our mates, that choose our jobs, that raise our children, who run the world. I always Laugh. Because when I see these world leaders, I’m like, there’s a 15 year old, there’s a 10 year old. Well, I think 15, I think that, I think that’s pretty high. Say that to you, do you think maybe 3, 5 and 7? Yeah, something around then. And you see a temper tantrums, but you know the whole thing around quantum what people. So when you get into the quantum world, there’s no such thing as time.

So your thoughts can take you back and change something which changes your perspective of how you see the world. And I actually did a group healing where they were checking people’s blood. There were 15 people and at a wellness center with, with physicians. And they were specially trained. And with this live blood test, what they do is they check your blood. Now I’m not a licensed mental or medical professional, so I’m just going by what these people told me. So they check people’s blood, we look at it under the microscope and then they do something called dried blood.

So there’s live blood and then four layers where they just prick your finger and you put it on a slide and then they look at the blood once it’s dried. So if you know when you look at a tree when it’s been cut down and you look at the rings and you can see that what happened to that tree during different times of its life lifespan, same thing as the blood works in the same way. So when they look at the dried blood, they can go back and look at this happened to you, this kind of trauma happened to your physical body in your 20s.

Like your surgery would probably show up. All of these different physical issues will show up over a period of time on that slide. So one of the people they checked had significant prostate issues. In three out of the four live blood tests after the healing, there was no trace of the prostate issue. The doctor started crying because she’d never seen anything like this. Like people were getting healed instantly. Now does this work 100% for people? No. And I don’t want to make any claims because we don’t heal anyone. We raise their frequency so they can heal themselves.

And that’s the quantum, because our quantum field is always striving to be healthy and whole. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I totally agree with that. And that’s the same as when I’m working with someone with the subconscious as well. I open up the space and I guide them through it. But as you say, you know, the body is a self healing mechanism. I, I sometimes look at it, I sometimes explain it like My, my participation in the healing process. So if, you know, if we cut our hand, the cut will heal on its own. Right. But if it gets infected, it might need an antibiotic cream.

Right. Get it back on its healing journey again and then it will heal itself. And so I sometimes say that like some of the techniques I use are rather like the antibiotic cream. I love that metaphor. That’s beautiful. I’m going to use that. Please do. I think it’s so good because, because then, you know, because ultimately the we as humans, so every client, you, me, we are so powerful. And, and my commitment to people is to help them fully, fully feel and realize that power that they are right. And, and, and so that metaphor is really helpful for that because it’s.

Then they really understand that it is their system that is wanting to heal. Exactly. Rather than anything else. So I think it really helps with, with, you know, that real deep, really deep empowerment as well. Well, I’d like to get back to the whole idea of instant manifestation because I have found in at least the past year, if not nine months that when I think of things, they’re starting to happen. And I want people to understand that’s good and bad. So you have to be really careful about what you focus on. So if you want to focus on world events and the negative and all this awful things that have happened to you in your past, you’re going to get more of that.

Yeah, yeah. So what is it that in your work, when you work with someone, what is it that shifts, that suddenly allows someone to get that dream happen that they were so close to before? Okay, okay. So that’s key. So when it’s, when someone’s so close to it, it’s so easy and so quick because there’s going to be just one tiny block. And however that block is manifesting for them, it might be different. It might be something that might be feeling in the body. And this is where I think where the sort of scanning that I use comes in.

Really helpful. It might be really evident. They might have a negative belief that they are conscious of. But more often it’s going to be a sort of heaviness in the system or maybe a hidden negative belief they weren’t aware of. There’ll be something the key is to get to, which is what I obviously help them with in the session is to really understanding from a visceral perspective what that is. Because that’s, that’s the symptom, if you like. Yes. Then going back through the unconscious and seeing what is at the root of it. And once you’ve cleared the root, the block isn’t there.

So the manifestation comes super fast. Yeah, and, and I mean, I think that’s. It speaks to my book again. You know, we all have some trauma and trauma can be healed. And it. Because I think anything that is. And this speaks to the wider question of, yes, we are all manifesting at speed all the time. And if somebody’s making the process very conscious and they’re just not getting over the line, that’s a super easy process to heal. It takes, you know, it takes no time at all. But what can be more challenging? And this has been part of my journey for sure, because when I started doing all this work, it uncovered a whole load of stuff that I didn’t even know was in me from God knows where and when, because I thought I had done enough healing, thank you very much.

But it was almost like another sort of veil came down. This time I was older and wiser and I’d done enough healing to sort of know it’s okay, keep going, you know, you’ll get through this. But it was really hardcore. And I think when, when that happens, it really. Another way of looking at it is if. If there’s so much stuff you think, oh my God, it’s not just one thing that’s in the way. I just know it’s a million things and blah, blah, blah, and I’m just stuck and I’m just freaking out. I think the real question then, and I think a lot of people who want to consciously manifest would perhaps do themselves some good by asking this question, which is, what is the context from which I want this thing? Because so many people are trying to create their life from a place of survival.

So, for example, I want to manifest loads more money because I’m really scared that my house might take. Be taken away or da, da, da. It comes from a fearful place. Right. So it’s about looking at the context, and that’s going to be a lot more painful to try and do. Well, like energy attracts like energy. So when you’re asking for more money from a place of scarcity, you get more scarcity when you. And, and, and there’s always this talk about, okay, imagine that it’s already done. If you don’t believe that you’re worthy and deserving of money, how are you going to manifest that? So it’s the, it’s the worthy and deserving of money that has to be released and then it comes.

Exactly. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. So it’s it’s really, It’s. It’s so important, really getting to. Yeah. What is the context I’m coming from. And. And as you say, really working on that. It’s absolute key. Yeah, I. I love. Yeah, no, I love this conversation because you and I speak the same language, which is beautiful. And. And I want to transition a little bit to the Zero Limits movie because we’re both castmates in it. How did the Pond end up in a movie with Dr. Joe Vitale? How did you get connected to this, you know, amazing project? And.

And just so people understand, I don’t know how long you were filming. We filmed eight hours and I got a couple of minutes in the movie. So here’s an opportunity for people to get to understand and know the castmates at a deeper level. Because people kept saying to me, I wanted to know more about your life story. I’m like, sorry about that. I had no control over that. No, it was very quick. I mean, I had a day’s filming as well. Just for three minutes. Yeah, but. So it was totally bizarre. It was. I mean, I’d been on, you know, I’ve been really trying to consciously create my life for a year or so, maybe a couple years, with a lot of intention.

And it was funny because Joe’s marketing emails come in. There are quite a lot of them. I’m on his list and I don’t always read them all at all, but I keep them on because I adore him and I just think he’s such an amazing, amazing person. And one time, I think I was putting my kids to bed, it was that funny sort of bath time, brushing teeth time, where everything’s sort of happening, but at the same time nothing’s happening. And I did. I was doing that sort of unconscious scrolling on my emails. I’ll just see if I can, like, check off an email while nothing’s really happening right now.

And I clicked on that, God knows why. And the question was, I don’t know if you had this as well. The question was, if you were to be in this movie, Zero Limits, what. Something like, why would you want to? Or what would be your contribution? I can’t remember. Something similar to that. And so I fired off some sort of response without giving it any thought whatsoever. And it was something along the lines of, over here in the uk, there is a lot still very much ensconced in that victim consciousness. So to have an English accent in a movie like this would hopefully really help the uk just to lift their frequency perhaps a little bit.

And, and, and I remember Patrick and I laughing about it. He’s like, no, no, no, I love it. Sorry. Patrick was the, he’s the producer, the director. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And he and I were having a laugh about it because. Yeah. And so it was just one of those weird things. I mean, what I was doing at the time, just to put it into the whole conscious creation package is I was consciously creating. I was opening my heart to life. I was opening my heart. I’d been a single mum for nine years. I’d been very much in the victim mindset for quite a few years during that time.

Even though I had no idea, I was, it was very unconscious, but I was just like, right, no, that’s it. Come on, it’s time to open up. Open up to life, open up to possibilities. Let’s just see. Let’s see what life has in store. So I was meditating in this heart opening space and I had been for a few months. I was really calling in divine opportunities. I’ve been a massive fan of ho’. Oponopono. I’ve been teaching ho’ oponopono because it had such huge results for me. And I, you know, despite even doing such a profound healing practice with people, I still encourage people that you gotta do ho’ oponopono as well.

It’s just, you’ve got to, you know, it’s just so powerful. So I was in that space and in that space, I was walking around in that space in my everyday. And it’s a beautiful example of how when you hold the frequency and you hold the space, opportunities do pop in. They just do. And what you’ve got to do, your responsibility in that is to check in, is this aligned. And if it’s a yes, you have to take the action. And it might feel like the most terrifying thing you’ve ever said yes to. It’s not necessarily going to feel straightforward, like a walk in the park.

Right. But if it looks like it ticks the boxes, you got to feel the fear and do it anyway. Or you got to feel the terror and do it. Yes. I love that because I. I’ve learned to say yes a lot more, especially since this experience, because I was like, well, what do I have to offer? What is this whole thing? I. I was not part of Joe Vitale’s list. I was in. And for people who don’t know, Hooponopono is an ancient Hawaiian prayer that’s so simple. It’s. I love you. I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.

And ho’ oponopono in the Hawaiian language means to make right. And it’s about forgiving and letting go. And the first response that I get often from people is, well, why am I saying it when they’re the perpetrator? And. And it’s. It’s really about, I don’t want to carry this anymore. I don’t want to carry this victimhood. I don’t want to carry all of this trauma. Because when you let all of it go because it is the past. And people like, but they did hurt me. They did do this. I’m like, well, how long do you want it? How’s that working for you? Because I was a really good victim myself.

And it wasn’t until I finally said, I’m going to drop this, and I started forgiving others and myself is when my book title came to me, which I tried to write for 15 years. You want to talk about Instant Manifestation? The book poured out of me. Five months later, it was done. And then I got asked to be in the movie, but I had no direct connection to Joe. I had no direct connection. It was through this ho’ oponopono group. Somehow my name got on a list that was not associated with him that someone asked. And I thought it was a scam.

So I actually, I put Patrick through. He was in on vacation, and he was driving with his wife and two children. And I made him get on FaceTime to show me his family and ask the kids, are these really your parents? That is hysterical. I love it. I love it. It’s too funny. But. No, but you. It is. It is that, oh, people sometimes say, you know, I hear so often. And I was even with a group of people yesterday who were just like, oh, you know, such rubbish, whatever. And I think, oh, you haven’t experienced the magic.

Like, it really does bloody happen. And yes, and. And the. The term that we’ve been using so much is expect miracles, because you do get miracles. You get miracles. Instant manifestation. Like, this is to a point where I think I shared with you that I was invited to go to Prague for. For an opening, which was on the 20th of September with Renata, and she’s also in the movie. And then I got invited to Ireland on the 20th for an event, and a whole bunch of my friends were going. And I thought, I’m so disappointed because I would really love to go to both.

Two days later, I get a call from Renata. I hope this is okay. But the movie premiere got moved to the 18th. Don’t make it up, but I planned months in advance. I had a similar experience from my journey getting to the Zero Limits premiere in Sacramento because you know, I’ve never ever left my children. They’re with me most of the time. They see their dad for like six weeks of the year. So the other Times that the 42, 46 years, whatever it is that they’re with me, I’ve never ever not been with them. So I’ve only ever gone away when they’ve been with their dad.

And the premier fell in a week obviously when I was with them and it was my daughter’s final week of term. And, and so for me to be away, there’s a lot of logistics. I need to find child care, I need to find a serious grown up on the ground because their dad lives in a different continent. So there’ll be no one else in the actual continent. And for this one, so it was childcare for my son, obviously you got to buy the plane ticket, you got to do all that stuff. And then my daughter had a speech day, a school speech day and her final day of school on the Saturday that I was due to fly back.

So there were all these things I had to take and I obviously really wanted to go to the premiere, but I was also holding the space for my kids safety and feeling supported is always going to come first, always. And, and the first thing I did was because I couldn’t think who to ask do the child care. I just didn’t know who to ask because they’re too old for nannies. We don’t, you know, we don’t, they’re 12, 14, it’s, it’s that funny age. And, and so I just, I was just bringing it into my ethers. I was bringing it into how I was walking through the day, opening myself up the possibilities and listening.

And suddenly it came through, this idea to text a nanny we’d had when the children were 2 and 4 years old. So that was a long, long time ago. But she was so lovely. So I sent her a text and I thought, well, if she says yes, maybe I can go. If she says no, maybe I can’t go. She came back and she said yes. It’s like, oh, wow, okay. So that was the childcare taken care of. And then it got to like two weeks before I was sort of dilly dallying because my daughter’s speech day and I wanted to be there for her speech day and it was prize giving and I thought I was going to fly in, but then I would have Been late.

Even if I’d gone straight from the airport to her school, I sort of been late. And I was just like, I can’t go to the premiere. There has to be someone there. Imagine if she got a prize and she didn’t have anyone there. Yeah, I just couldn’t do that. So I was disappointed. But I thought, okay, it’s fine. I just, you know, I just won’t go and. But I was still, I was still keeping everything open. I was still keeping open the what if? And about five days before I was due to leave, my ex husband sent me a text saying, hey, I’m due to be in the UK on Saturday, whatever that date was, I want to have them for dinner that night.

And I was like, you’re kidding me. So I texted him back and I said, any chance you could do do Lola’s speech day? He’s like, yeah, of course I can. Can I borrow your car? So suddenly, you know, everything, all the boxes were ticked and I’m just like, you know, I just, I was just there with these full body goosebumps. Wow. Whilst I was really, you know, I didn’t lose, I didn’t come away from my integrity once. Right throughout that whole process as well. I wasn’t fighting to go to the premiere, but I did. I had the plane ticket, I had the hotel, I even had a cancellation plan if I couldn’t go.

Everything, you know, sorted that I could possibly do and literally the universe met me with the rest. Yes. And you know, that is the kind of that that is. There’s a lot of proof of how it works in stories like that. Yes. You know, there really is. So the more I’m finding the more we release. Your cat is beautiful. Gorgeous. He’s very clingy, especially so cute. Back in a second. I, I just, I, I love that example because I want to me, it’s so important that people have hope. Yes. And understand it’s even beyond hope that if you are willing to have the courage to just look at things now here was the biggest aha moment in my entire life that I realized doing this work was about the more you stuff things down and don’t acknowledge has to go somewhere.

Right. So it will show up in anxiety, in stress, in physical issues. So you don’t always associate that stuffing information down to an event. That’s why working with the subconscious mind is so key. Because when you can literally ask their higher self that has the answers to everything. Take me to the root cause of this issue. I’ve had two Women a week apart come to me for help on their golf game, literally asked to go to the root cause of their issue. And both of them had been sexually abused as children would never. One of them was a therapist, and she said to me, I’ve been doing this work for 30 years.

I would never have associated this behavior with that. And that is the beauty of working with the subconscious mind and all of these. Because when you release that, then there’s nothing blocking you, because now you’re in alignment, and that’s when the miracles flow. Yeah. It’s so true. And I have clients say to me all the time, like, I would never. They literally say at the end of a session, I would never have thought those two were related, because, of course, if we could work it out with our conscious mind, we would have cleared it already. Exactly.

So I love how this conversation has woven to this, because I hope people walk away with the idea of zero limits and expect miracles. Because I’m living it. Is my life perfect? No. But I will tell you in ways like, I suddenly. You know, with houses, they. They have things that happen. And I had an investment that I had made, and suddenly my driveway washed away, half of it in a big storm. And I have a very long driveway, and my deck is rotting, and I had, like, all of these huge expenses all at once. And I thought to myself, my God, you know, this is.

This is a big number. And suddenly I looked at a statement, and one of my investments had doubled. And I was like. And it was the exact amount that I needed to cover all of this. And I was like, what? Yeah, it’s wild. That’s exactly how this stuff happens. It does. And I could name time after time that they’ve happened. Most people refer to them as coincidences when I think of them as synchronicities. And. And there. There’s a book that I read years ago called God Winks. You know, whatever you want to call them, it’s really.

Your higher self is. Is manifesting all of this. You are creating this. Your entire world is a direct manifestation of how you feel inside. So if you don’t like the way you feel inside or. Or your world outside, you have to change the inside, and then everything outside of you will change. And one thing I want to add to that, because this is something I felt prey to many times, and I think it probably held me back because I got in such a worry about it, is that even when you are consciously wanting to consciously create your life, you can have an off day where you cannot Remember what the hell you’re doing.

Your mind is completely foggy. You feel really, really bleh. And it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t mean that everything has gone to disaster. It doesn’t mean that suddenly you’re going to manifest complete horror stories. No, it just means that you’re human. Yes. And come and go like the weather. And it’s just. It’s just. Be with it. Be with it. And just gently and slowly and with compassion. Come back very slowly without forcing. Come back to the state that you want to be creating in, but don’t get sucked into the vortex of, oh, my God, it’s not working.

I can’t do this because I just feel so awful. Yes. Make that mistake many times. And you. We don’t need to go there. The big T word. Trust. Trust. Yeah, that’s it. So for those people, I want to thank you so much because this was really a fabulous conversation. I always love talking to you. I love talking to you, too. Thank you. And I want. I’m gonna have information for people. So do you work with people at a distance or do you primarily work with them in person if someone wanted to contact you? I only work on Zoom.

Okay. Yeah, yeah, I’ve been working on Zoom for a decade. Yeah, yeah, Perfect, perfect. So I’ll have your contact information below. And for those people who want to see us and the rest of the cast members on the movie Zero Limits, it’s going to be available September 25th on Amazon and also Apple TV. It’ll be streaming and there’s premieres all over the world. So if you check the website, zerolimitmovie.com zerolimitsmovie.com you can check to see if there’s a premiere near you. And it’s really an amazing. And I always say, because I did a premiere here in Vermont two weeks ago, and there are going to be people who resonate with you, and you’re going to be like, I love their story.

And other people. People. Doesn’t resonate so much with you. But the whole story itself of the idea of forgiveness and love and expecting miracles flows throughout the entire movie. And I hope that people get that when they walk out. Yeah. Beautifully said, beautifully said. Okay. So thank you, Lucinda, so much. And I’ll have all of your information below. And I look forward to connecting with you. You soon. You, too. And thank you so much. Lisa, Sam.
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